Discussion Questions: 

1. If your life had a personal theme song, what song would it be? Or what song instantly takes you back to a funny, memorable, or meaningful season of your life? 

2. The talk reminded us that following Jesus means putting off our old self and becoming more like who God created us to be. What is one way you have seen God change your thinking, attitudes, or actions since you began following Him? What has been harder to change? 

3. The talk compared our old patterns to clothes that no longer fit. Is there an attitude, habit, or way of responding that you know no longer reflects who you are becoming in Christ? What do you think keeps you reaching for that old pattern, and what could it look like to replace it with a response that reflects Jesus? 

4. Ephesians 4:25–28 connects our personal transformation with the way we treat others. Which of these areas—speaking truthfully, handling anger, or using what we have to bless others—would be the most challenging for you right now? How might growing in this area change one of your relationships? 

5. Read Romans 12:1–2. 

A. What does this passage teach us about the connection between renewing our minds and experiencing a transformed life? How does that connect with putting off the old self and putting on the new self in Ephesians 4? 

B. Where do you notice the world’s patterns trying to shape your thinking or responses? What is one way you can invite God to renew your mind in that area this week? 

6. The talk challenged us not just to put off old patterns, but to actively put on the character of Jesus—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. What is one specific pattern you need to put off this week, and what Christlike action will you put on in its place? Who could encourage you as you take that step?