Message Discussion Questions

1.

Which Christmas card moment from the message made you laugh the most, and why do you think we’re drawn to family chaos and humor?
This helps lower the walls and opens emotional honesty.

2.

Share a time when family—past or present—has been a source of joy or pain. How has that shaped your view of belonging?
Encourages vulnerability and deep reflection.

3.

Psalm 139:13–14 says God “knit you together.” What does it mean to you that God intentionally designed you with a longing for family and connection?
Helps participants connect personal identity to God’s purpose.

4.

Paul says we were “slaves” to spiritual performance before Christ (Galatians 4:3–5). Where do you feel the pressure in your own life to “earn” God’s approval instead of receiving His love freely?
Opens discussion about grace vs. religion.

5. Parallel Passage – Romans 8:14–17

Read this together.

a. What similarities do you see between this passage and Galatians 4:3–5?
b. What does it mean to you that the Spirit “testifies” that you are God’s child?

Deepens theological understanding while engaging emotionally.

6.

If God created you for family, what is one practical step you can take this week to strengthen spiritual community—either by receiving belonging or offering it?
Encourages real-life application.